Rewire Your Brain from Complaining to Compassion

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Remember a day when you just got frustrated with anything to anyone. It could be something at work that engages you for hours and you come home with thoughts that just makes you feel irritatable.

We all have days which aren’t just as sunny. But while I say that it’s important to not forget that all days aren’t rainy either. It’s just like a spectrum which has variations and of course variables.

You will be surprised to know that too much complaining has a negative impact. The more you practice it the more your brain gets rewired. A research from Standford University has shown that — complaining shrinks the hippocampus. Hippocampus is the area of brain that is responsible for critical thinking, learning and memory. 🧠

Here are 2 ways and you can choose either:

1. Shift your perspective towards things you are grateful for because complaining won’t get you anywhere either. Complaining sometimes leads to release of cortisol, too much release of cortisol is not good on a long term. So, try to cultivate an attitude that helps you.

2. Complain but with a solution-orientation. Think about why you are complaining and how can it be resolved. Try to identify the purpose, what are the different ways of looking at it and what are the ways to get over it. Obviously, it’s not a day thing but try a constructive manner.

And lastly, excess of anything always results in danger☠️. When you see yourself engaging in complaining, remind yourself to stop and break the wiring.

Have a wonderful week! 🌻

Autism Spectrum Disorder

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Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurological and development disorder. It affects individual’s ability to interact, communicate, learn and behave.

Diagnostic Statistical Manual (DSM) describes the key features of ASD as:

1. Restricted interests and repetitive behaviors.

2. Difficulty in communicating and interacting with other people.

3. Symptoms affects their abilities to function in school, work or other areas of life.

If you are observing developmental delays in your child, it’s a good idea to consider screening if they are 9 months old or above.

A recent study suggests that it is essential to go beyond short-term reactive care for children with autism. Introducing an integrative model which provides more opportunities to utilize from data science and digital health technologies to improve support to children, adults and families.

Here is a video to understand how neurofeedback can help in improving social behavior in children with autism.

Early diagnosis is always good to in order to begin intervention and build support.

Keeping Cool in Angry Times

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It seems nearly impossible. I am absolutely with you when you say this… because it is really tough or even impossible. At the same time, you do not want to say something and regret later.

Anger is an emotion that is characterized by antagonism or a strong feeling of being upset or being annoyed because of something wrong or bad.

Anger can be used as a way to express negative feelings or help in focusing and finding solutions. However, excessive anger can be problematic not only physically but psychologically too.

While some of you can manage anger, others who are “hotheaded” experience anger at a higher intensity than average. It could be due to numerous factors such as — low tolerance toward frustration, genetic or sociocultural.

So here are 3 ways to help you cool your head when angry:

Relaxation : simple breathing from your diaphragm. Take a deep breath in – hold – release lungs 🫁, you can pair it with visualization of a calming picture. 🖼️ Here is one for you.

Restructure your Thoughts : when we are feeling something too intense, logic goes out of the window. But if we think logically it sometimes defeats anger. Try reminding yourself that it could be a rough spot here and shift your perspective. 💭

Use Humour : as a child you would sometimes burst in laughter when angry. Rage diffuses in a number of ways and one among is silly humor. You can of course find a way to diffuse your own anger. 😸🤭🐶

Now that you know how to do it here is a Pro Tip: Give yourself a break! ☕ A study suggest that taking a break for 5-60 minutes refreshes your brain.

Inside out is an amazing movie to understand about your emotions.

Brain facts

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Brain 🧠 without which it is impossible to do anything. It’s this big bundle of neurons packed with everything from memories to knowledge. It’s incredibly complex. It controls everything just how strings controls the puppet.

It consists of parietal lobe, temporal lobe, occipital lobe, frontal lobe, cerebellum, cerebral cortex and brain s notem each unique in its own features.

Here are 5 fun facts about your brain-

1. Brain continues to mature even after it is done growing.

2. Your brain has around 2,500,000 gigabytes of storage space.

3. Neurons are cells which transfer information in your brain. Sensory neurons, motor neurons and interneurons are three main types of neurons.

4. Females brain grow and mature a bit sooner than males.

5. An adult brain weighs around 3 pound, 73% of which is water.

If you are interested in learning or teaching about brain to your kids, go here and download or order a free coloring book about the brain and mental health.

Hope you had a brainful reading! 💭